The Interview

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Are you hard working?  Not enough.

Do you have good communication skills? Not enough.

Do you have the ability to adapt and possess problem-solving skills? Not enough.

Do you have experience? Not enough.

Do you have a degree? Not enough.

Do you know about trauma informed care? Not enough.

What do I know?

I know I continue to self-reflect and work on myself even when it’s hard.

I know I communicate effectively while knowing that we can disagree and still be professional.

I know I continuously have adapted to hard and unpredictable situations personally and professionally.

I know I have my master’s degree and I'm a continuous learner.

I know that I continuously learn to navigate my own trauma and keep working on myself while learning how to ground myself when I feel like I am fading away.

I may not be the “ideal” candidate or interviewee in an interviewer’s eyes. However, I like to think that what I do know is important. What I have experienced is important. What I worked for is important. What I believe is important. What I value is important. What I could bring to the table is important.

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